Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.
–Abraham Lincoln
Happy people plan actions, they don’t plan results.
–Dennis Wholey
Often times when I’m working on a particular project I find that I’m never happy with the outcome. It feels like no matter how hard I work it will never be superior in my eyes. Years ago I had no clue as to why I felt like this. I wasn’t sure if my project really was bad or did I feel as if I didn’t give it my all, causing me to have doubts? I wasn’t sure, but I needed answers so I decided to take some time to study to very important topics happiness and self-acceptance. After figuring out that I could Accomplish more by working on myself I was not only happy with my work but I was able to be more productive because My mind was more clear and ready for the job.
We are all humans (except for my lil’ doggie tila she’s a Boonie dog I got from the Guam animal shelter), and we all have views on our look, on our performance and our character. For the most part our minds are dangerously self inflicting and this pain causes us to suffer and it keeps us from reaching success.
Its hard to stop this ego altering process when you are using the wrong strategy. But with a few motivating pointers you can definitely be on your way to a more happy you.
I Love Myself I Believe I Can Achieve |
OK one of the worst mistake one can make is thinking to hard. You should have clear plans before you start any project so that you know exactly what you want the outcome to be. This way there will be little to no second guessing as long as you follow your pre-set plans as close as possible. I know you’re like who the hell wants to plan everything out? My answer is, Who the hell wants to be successful? You, right! I know its a difficult task but if you try it for, lets say 30 days you’ll see you’re more accepting of your work and a lot more productive.
Productivity is the ultimate goal of businesses and life. How much can I get accomplished today, that’s the bottom line. That’s why in order for us to be as successful we need to take the required steps at increasing our productivity. This will involve working on our minds.
You have to think better to produce better!
Nothing will ever be good enough as long as you judge yourself as not being not good enough. You have to believe that you are good enough by accepting yourself and not caring about what others say. You can argue that you must care about the thoughts of others, but I don’t think so because nothing can ever make up for a lack of self-acceptance. As long as you are doing the best and being the best that you can be you will always find that you can achieve your goals and be happy with the results.
sounds good right, well read on it gets better!
I would like you to sit back and take some time to think about how the entire world could be positively effected if we were all more self accepting and we all learned to lower our pride and drop our ego’s.
When our pride is high and our ego’s are big and we do not accept ourselves and that’s a recipe for disaster that causes us to lose our commitment and flat-out quit. That’s not good Because eventually in the long run “Everyone will pay for your own self-hatred” and we don’t want that. We want to be wealthy, successful and happy and in order to achieve this you must change your own opinion about yourself, trust in yourself, and love yourself FIRST.
Love Yourself Sucess Will Soon Follow |
Now that you understand to be happy is to love yourself, you now must understand one more wealth building secret. The key to happiness is not found in a purchase from your local retailer. Listen YOU CANT BUY HAPPINESS!
Say that 3 times fast. And if you want to be victorious say it 6 times even faster!
Don’t think that you can ever get a piece of mind by buying a bunch of crap. It will not help you produce any better, and you’ll be in the same state of mind 10 Min’s after your purchase. We just want to work on our minds so that we can be more happy with ourselves.
“True happiness is not about a Big Screen Tv, or the Car in the driveway-
True happiness is to stop all cases of self judgment.”
Here’s my thought on buying stuff to make you happy.If you absolutely must buy an item learn to incorporate your goals in the process so that you’ll have a reason to reward yourself.
If you start to work on something and finish it, then you are allowed to buy that Blu-Ray HD DVD player you’ve been eyeing for months. If you do not finish the task then you must engage in an activity by yourself or with friends and family that will build your self-confidence and put you on the right track to success and victory. also remember to bookmark VictoryBlogger’s home page so you can reference it when you need some motivation to help you achieve success.
So if you want to be more happy and productive never judge yourself in a negative way. Make plans and set goals, and trust in yourself to actually follow your plan, you can do it! and only look for positive re-enforcement (not flat screen televisions) when looking for encouragement and inspiration.(unless you actually deserve it)
July 24th, 2008 at 2:10 am
A lot of self doubts are a natural protection mechanism to protect us from future problems. However it is also interesting that this innate problem cause stress and unhappiness when it’s primary function is to alleviate it.
The human mind is a complex thing indeed