Today as I was writing my goals down I started getting very happy because the future looks real good for me. It looks as if I’m going to be where I want to be at mentally, and financially as far as VictoryBlogger is concerned. I know I have to keep writing good content that you guys can learn from as well as giving you something that is new and fresh. And this all seems pretty easy to me do to the fact that I’m internally motivated to see this blog succeed . So as I said everything seems real good for me and success is highly probable, and that’s where the problem starts.
When thinking about success and making my goals for the future I have come to see that with success comes an increase in work, responsibilities and problems. If this blog grows more successful then I will have to write more, and find ways to keep you even more engaged. I will also have to deal with the increase in time needed for the blog as well as dealing with security, marketing, and other business side issues. Now with all of these problems that will come by being more successful it’s easy to see why most people actually fear success. Yeah you might benefit in some ways but thinking of the responsibility that will be on your shoulders is not worth the trade, this brings me to a short story of my military days.
Success In The Military…
Back when I was in the Air force I remember hearing of a lot of airmen who blatantly did not want to get promoted to their next rank. Basically your first 3 - 4 ranks are given to you and after that you have to test for your rank as well as prove that you are stellar. Well a lot of airmen would not study so that they could fail on purpose, because they already understand the responsibilities they will “inherit” when they make that promotion. What’s even more crazy is that once you get promoted you get an increase in pay, not to mention the more stripes that you have the more respect you get. But people were willing to pass up respect and money because they were afraid of what success would bring them in the military.
The reason i told this story because it gives a good example of why some people are afraid of success. Most people are not mentally capable of handling success which is why they either bomb when they reach it or shy away from ever getting success in the first place. The answer to this is easy mainly because the problem merely lies in ones mind.
To create and sustain success it is essential to find and release your fears of success. The more you leave the task undone, the more your fears will control you. “it’s the monster in the closet, And it gets bigger.”
Everyone that knows me personally knows that I am the type to get straight to the point and fix any problem as fast as possible. And fearing success is a problem that I really feel should be nipped in the butt immediately. I feel so strong about fixing your fear of success because I know that you can easily find away to heal the problem that’s making you think like that in the first place, it just involves a few steps of looking at yourself and thinking about your future.
Fear Of Success…
Take a look at yourself and ask a few questions.
- Why do I want success-positive
- What will come from this success-positive
- How will I benefit-positive
- How will I lose-negative
- What must I do to sustain this success-positive/negative
- What can I do to lose it all-negative
- What new responsibilities will i get along with this success-negative
- How long do I want it to last-positive/negative
Now after you ask yourself those questions I want you to take all the reasons you to take every negative question you have and and write 3 positive answers next to it. What you are essentially doing is making the best out of every negative situation, thus allowing you to be very optimistic of achieving success. If you do everything in your power to love the benefits of success while simply observing and understanding your fears you will definitely allow yourself to achieve success and stay motivated to keep it.
“People fear success because they are afraid of the situations they will be in from the new change, they simply don’t know how to handle it.”
In The Future There Is No Fear Of Success…
Now that you were able to look at the good side of success and the freakin’ bad side and then you even wrote down goods for you bad’s you are now able to start focusing on moving forward and trying to become successful. You must understand that you are putting yourself in a position to do great things, the opportunity is there and you must be the best at capitalizing on it. You must believe that you can have your cake and eat it to, and whatever was holding you back from success is minuscule compared to what you’ll receive when you reach victory.
You want to be successful so remember that you must act in spite of fear no matter what. Make it a habit to use another word whenever you want to say fear, doubt, or worry. These are negative words that will only hinder you and increase your fear of success. Doing this will allow you to focus on freeing your mind and taking action towards achieving victory.
“Our culture is focused on fixing the past. It’s as if we are driving through life staring in the rear-view mirror.”
Take action for the future and stop dreaming about today or the past. How many times have you dreamed of getting rich, and your bank account mysteriously showed $250,000. Or how many times have you been thinking about starting a business and you walked outside and saw an advertisement of your business on a billboard, not that often…more than likely not at all. that’s because while dreaming is good you will sooner or later envision a negative of winning and then you will get fearful of success and then you’ll find yourself dreaming FOREVER…and never seeing results.
Tame Your Fear Of Success…
I want too add something here really quick. Don’t feel like you have to completely eliminate your fear of success, but you do have to tame it, keep it on leash and tone it down a bit. Having a fear of success just means you are actually thinking about achieving, and this is good. The problem is when you let this fear consume you, now you are doomed, unless you read this and then you will have the keys to overcome your fears. Make a change in the way you deal with success and you’ll see a change in the way you achieve success.
“Change comes from choice and we have always had that power.”
Remember nothing that you do will ever come easy. Look at it like this, if you aren’t willing to conquer fear, then fear will conquer you. Want ever you want you can get it, just stop holding yourself back with petty fears and start taking actions to achieve success. Now you no longer have a fear of success.
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